Don’t have any solid advise. My daughter will be 16 years old when she will start college. She is 2 years skipped and now in high school.. I found that with social side you cannot do much, unfortunately (at least in our case). We are trying to keep up with her old friends, who she left behind after the second skip, but it is really hard. I would say advise from Aeh is great. We somewhat had success with our daughter joining a sport club and have some camaraderie through it. However, we are still not even close with her having “normal” friendship. We kind of accepted that reality for now. Our daughter does consider now a gap year before she starts college, when before she completely was against it. She is 12 so we will see if this will change couple of years down the road... Just wish you and your son all the luck in your wonderful journey!
