Update on our commuting - after a week of commuting and living through Tropical Storm Fay and 28 inches of rain in our back yard in 2 days - we came to the conclusion that this commute is a wee bit much for our 5 year old and he was just really burnt out at the end of the day (along with the fact that the county the school is in stated before we began this, that they would be able to have an itinerant Speech/OT teacher come out to his school for his IEP services...after we started they stated that due to budget cuts they would no longer be able to do this and that we would have to commute another 15-20 minutes further away to drive him into another public school for services leaving us close to 1 hr 20 minutes away from home)....so we are back to square one.