My thoughts this year have been along the times of, "Ok, so we're on year 2 in this 3-grade class... and her 2 good friends are a grade older.. and DO WE REALLY NEED to do this class for 3 YEARS???" I love her teacher who is sooo good with the ASD stuff, and we have a special pull-out ASD program in our home elementary that's been great... but we have another 1.5 years in this class after this.
The only way out would be to grade-skip into 6th and go into middle school next year but I'm not sure if these scores justify such a thing. She's also horribly disorganized, but there is a difference between visible failure to organize physical objects (a disaster) and organizing academic products (usually fine). And it's not like she has any homework right now to practice organizing anyway.
