I think that when you read stories online you're reading a subset of experiences, and the parents most likely to be posting are the parents of kids who've struggled in some way - it's the only reason I've posted for sure - I came or originally looking for help, and I've stayed around to help others. I know quote a few families of high-intellectual-ability kids in my own area who are having great experiences with school and/or aren't hugely concerned about meeting gifted needs, and thru aren't the families you'll find posting - they're for the
most part out enjoying life smile

I don't, however, necessarily agree that a student with a 132 FSIQ is going to necessarily easily find a school situation that works. The combination of motivation, personality, school resources, school mission, teachers personality, teaching and learning style - there are so any variables that go into any individual's education it's just impossible (jmo) to make blankets assumptions for what will or won't work for students of any ability.

Best wishes,

polarbear