I think that response is beautiful!!! You are so right. And in our quest to "find out" the most meaningful thing for me as her mother was "now it all makes sense!" All the personality characteristics that I fought or drove me crazy, I now have so much more patience with. It all makes sense; the early waking, the intensity, the constant questions, the easily frustrated perfectionism, the need for justice and not just letting something go....I am so much more patient with her Bc it's how she's wired. She is happier, we are happier now Bc it makes sense and I have some answers as to why she is the way she is. I don't know why these answers helped me just be more patient but they did and I can tell she is so much happier!! Which is everything to me! Thank you