How frustrating! And obnoxious. I've received the same message from our spec ed support person, almost as bluntly. My kids are fine, I'm the problem. When you know the kids aren't fine, or you know what it's taking you to keep their heads above water and their souls from being crushed, that attitude is just.... just.... oh, insert some very bad word here. (My kids aren't at that school any more).

Anyways, to the point: do you know that she is actually decoding, rather than reading as sight words?