Again, my apologies, gratified. Not what I intended to say.
It was a fast and poorly written post intended to continue the conversation about Ruf, not an attack. Honest.
I blew it. I accept that and take responsibility for my poorly written post. But please listen to me when I tell you that I was intending to defned Ruf, not attack you. I was trying to make a general statement about another possible way to view such a response to school from a child, NOT judging your particular child. I was thinking about it in response to your view of Ruf, NOT intending to talk about YOUR child.
