I think I would just go ahead and withdraw him.

- It's a loud, noisy place, and he doesn't do well in loud, noisy places.
- Much of the activity revolves around ball playing, and he doesn't like to play ball.
- He has social issues, and this sounds like a chaotic social situation.
- In addition to all of the above, he's 5, and therefore needs a lot of staff attention to help get him going, but the place is minimally staffed.

How is he supposed to connect with other kids when he's dealing with sensory overload, already has a social deficit, and he doesn't want to play the things the other kids are playing? It just doesn't seem like a good match.