DH here -- Just wanted to chime in with my 2c. I've kind of been pushing for the Grayson School... maybe I'm an idealist, but I feel like with a kid like DS, I really don't want to settle for "meh, maybe they can keep him occupied with kids his own age, and then we'll do the real schooling at home."

It would be one thing if he was far ahead in a single subject, but for a kid who's globally at least 3 grades ahead, what is a traditional school going to do? I REALLY don't want him to be bored 6 hours out of every day, and get really jaded about academics & learning & everything.

Of course, the 2 dead hours of driving that the Grayson School would require is bad, too... I hate it when there's no perfect option.