you are not alone. DD is only 4 and I still get well what we found worked is blah blah blah. I actually told a lady I wanted to smack her yesterday after she was complaining about her kids sleeping/toileting habits. I can't believe I was so horrible to such a nice lady. Just another sign I guess that we cop it from all directions and if you don't learn to deal with it you can be a right witch. She really did look shocked.

HK thank you so much for saying that you hothouse lacking attributes, I have been feeling so guilty about doing this but I know that to get the education she will need DD needs to show some consistency in a few areas.