I don't know HK. I am not sure Asynchrony does go away but it isn't the same problem through life. That feeling of aloneness is solved by finding peers and that changes as our social circle changes. When we find our tribe the feeling of being asynchronous goes away but I guess because I move a lot, I experience the same feeling of being out of step until I find new peers and it's not always easy. Understanding why I find it hard is helpful as an adult so it makes it easier to cope and understand that weird feeling.
