Cola, I'm a fellow 2e mom and it's a wild ride. I enjoyed the books Academic Advocacy for Gifted Children: A Parent's Guide by Gillman and also A Nation Deceived (free download online). We ended up pulling our 6.5 year old to homeschool as there is no gifted programming in our state but before we did I found both books extremely helpful. Best wishes to you!

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