Ok! So he is 8yo. He was tested for asd twice but did not meet criteria. His theory of mind score was high - which shocked us as he appears to lack social understanding. He was tested by a salt who said inference probs but not bad enough to be a disability.
He has been diagonsed with sensory processing issues & tic disorder. He is rigid, needs everything to be "just so" according to the rules in his head", anxious if things are not right, doesnt understand social etiquette, addicted to computers, delayed with imaginative play.

Top set at school in maths but went unrecognised for years. Seen as bright but not amazing by teachers..