Flyingmouse I think that's a great idea but I'm not sure we can implement it just yet - do you know if these sorts of things are usually a health insurance type of thing? I looked up a few online and they seem to start at 4 years old instead of 3 but I'll keep looking a bit. DH is unfortunately transitioning between jobs at the moment and our health insurance is probably going to be expensive and not so great for a bit.

Thinking about it, we really don't do that many playdates with other kids, which is my fault. I think that for now I'm going to concentrate on setting up playdates and 'getting him out there' a bit more and see how that plays out and maybe add a sports team as well if we can swing it.