Will any of his teachers be at the meeting? Can he explain any of this himself? I'm assuming he will be at the meeting. We just had a SST meeting for my DS15 a H.S. sophomore and all but one of his teachers attended. We have the 504 meeting next week, and I was just told only one of his teachers will attend this meeting.

Not sure I'm a lot of help, but I'm right there with you. My son has different issues. But I'm right there with the teachers who don't update assignments online. I am really starting to HATE DS's Chemistry teacher, not only does she not put homework online but she takes WEEKS to update grades. It's hard to help DS stay on track at home, if I have no idea what is going on. We are starting a contract with the teacher that will hopefully help with this, and the nice part is the teacher is required to take late homework from my son (up to a week) while the contract is in place. And the teacher has to become more accountable.