Thanks Ametrine, I'll print some out and try them.
I bought a game called Khet at a thrift store and knew I would be hopeless at it. It looks a bit like chess but you take out the other player's pieces with a laser light and mirrors. If the light hits a piece it is taken out. Dh is good at chess and other visual activities just like the kids so I had him play it with DD. Holy smokes, she was barely even looking at the board but was taking out his pieces left and right with almost no thought put into it. It was hilarious watching Dh actually studying the board while DD was spinning around, chatting with me, etc, then DD taking out his pieces after she looked at the board for 3 seconds. All Dh would say is "she was better than I thought she would be."
I haven't tried it with DS--I'm not sure he's good enough with planning/strategy and it looked like it might be frustrating for him. Just thought I'd put that out there for other visual kids who might like it.
