Update: principal responded and said she was merely "getting to know" my son. The project suggestion was her way of "providing" enrichment.

Another update: the principal continues with her claim that there are 5 kids in DS class working at his level. Honestly, we are hanging by a thread here. I am really hoping that DYS is going to be able to help here even just a little. I don't want to jump ship yet.

Anyone BTDT, can DYS help us to male this work or is this just insurmountable?