So, how bad is it that I just downloaded Civilization V into my computer couple days ago because I miss the old versions so much? And Sim City ... I know the day I show it to DS4.11, he'll sleep with the laptop in his bed! lol

As for the original question, DS4.11 isn't showing any special powers either. It's the little things that we notice in whatever he does and when he plays with other kids that tell us, yes, he's different. DS3.4 is clearly driven by academics but the older one LOVES being a kid and we love that about him. Our kid who just a year ago couldn't be around more than 3 or 4 kids because it was too overwhelming for his senses is now our little social butterfly.