I have to start bringing someone - someone supportive. I love my husband but he gets too caught up in and excited by when they start showing how "well" Ds is doing. They sort of exploit that emotion that you want signs that your child is "cured" or "fixed" DH tends to eat it up. I know better, plus I spend a lot more time with DS particularly with school and learning tasks so I see the discrepancy.
I absolutely think it makes sense to bring someone. I know people have brought their clergy person. But just having someone else on your side of the table helps.
