p.s. in case I made this sound easy, it hasn't been at all-

first, she could probably go up a grade because she gets good grades just by absorbing in the classroom and we still struggle with study habits (but attitude is much better overall) but her writing challenges will hold her back from that being allowed (until we can sort out accommodations) and her nerves have suffered damage and she needs support in that area for the rest of the school year at least for her to feel more emotionally secure - in the upper elementary grades with the social scene pushing toward middle school stuff it's a little complicated.

But without this school change or homeschooling she'd be much worse off and it does feel like a step in the right direction.