I am in ABQMom's camp. I do not see publicity being a problem as long as it's the true story (instead of distorted one). It may help you in better standing with the gifted teacher and the principal and your advocating for your DS from now on will be very receptive.

But again, it is not about us, parents. It is about the kid and your DS doesn't want it, you have to make a stand. My younger DD would welcome it but older DD wouldn't. I would act upon my DD's wish and not mine.