The problem is that this meeting shouldn't be the start. I've talked to all the players before and they are all already aware of my concerns. I've heard all of the platitudes and have waited patiently.
I am prepared to listen to them as they get to see DS5 in school. They are aware of how he is responding socially, which is very important. I also understand that the school has some preset parameters and limitations in what can be offered. However since nothing has yet to offered or attempted I need to get them to actually see DS. I need them to listen also.
I would be happy with almost any measurable accommodation as it would show a willingness on the school's part to start working with us. I will definitely be setting up a further meeting as I agree that there is no way that everything that needs to be accomplished can be figured out tonight. I'm just so tired of being patient and watching DS become more and more unhappy at school,
