Add me to those who think that model students who are gifted girls and who are clearly striving to be the best helpers possible may be worth keeping an eye on. MInd you, I don't know your child and I think there are a lot of possibilities here and a lot of ways for this to play out, both positive and negative. But in many ways I appreciate my DD's rough edges and squeaky wheel persona because I doubt very much that the "nice girl" pressure is going to get her. She's simply too spiky (although I do see that she has toned down some of her behavior, esp, around peers, as she's aged).
