Sounds like good progress, Melessa!
We finally have a meeting with ds' teacher and principal. I hope the teacher doesn't feel we usurped her authority. But my questions were assessment-based to determine appropriate work. I'm hoping to get my dh to come also. The principal and teacher are very nice (from my experiences and other reports), but I'm struggling with the scenario that they look at me like I'm crazy to ask for harder work. I need someone else there with me who knows the level of work ds does at home.
