Ultramarina- You're right, of course, to an extent, but my concern is that my 6yo has a hard time sitting in school as well as at church, at the dining room table, at restaurants, etc... You get the idea wink My even larger concern is more in the arena of emotional OE/2E- specifically anxiety issues. I'm seeing phobias that appear to not be getting better (toilets and bathrooms among other things) and may be getting worse as well as worries and anxieties that may be starting to cause somatic symptoms ("it feels like I'm not breathing even though I am", "my stomach feels fizzy").

At the same time, he does seem 'normal' most of the time. How often does it have to be limiting in some way before you consider it to be 'pathological' instead of a 'normal variation'?