New here...hello!
I am an adult with high creativity and poor detail management. A smart phone and a secretary have made my life infinitely easier!
My dad's critcism of my mistakes despite my great effort and creativity still echo in my head even 30-some years later. I also struggle to not impose my perfwctionism on my DS5. He seems to grasp things so easily that I'm surprised when he doesn't.
So I say to you as much to myself, our kids will eventually internalize their own inner critic. Best not to rush them into feeling as if "less than perfect" is unacceptable.