Ditto to everything DeeDee said. We've been through the "is it ADHD or is it Gifted" with our ds as well as honestly thinking our older dd * must * be ADHD based on her behavior only to find out it was something else all together. Getting another opinion isn't the end-all any more than getting a diagnosis makes everything suddenly resolve. The one thing I would wonder re your dd is that if she was suspected of having ADHD based on a Connors questionnaire - I wouldnt think that gifted behaviors would look like ADHD on Connors.... But I'm not anywhere near qualified to have an opinion on that!
Good luck tomorrow -I hope you are able to get a better understanding of what's up.
polarbear
