GG - Sounds so wonderful! And even if it doesn't last more than another month or two, that doesn't take away how wonderful it is right now.
The great thing is that she has choices! I would still push for DD to be able to "pick and choose" from a menu of "personal work" and "whole class" work.
Having thought through all the options means that you will be ready for whatever comes.
I'm having a brain-wave. OK, Perhaps while she works with the Para, the Para can demonstrate who to take a "whole class" assignment and make it more "personal." That way your DD can grow up to be one of the lucky ones who takes responsibility for making classroom work, work FOR her.
I think you're doing very well. handpicking the teachers is a wonderful stratagy. I would encourage you to try to get in there and observe, if possible.
This reminds me of a little conversation I had with a friend about my DS10.
Me (defensivly): Every child deserves a proper challenge!
My wise friend (gently): Every child deserves to be thought about well.
I still get tears when I think of this.
You are the one who get's to "think well about dd." What a treat!
Love and More Love,
Trinity
