Starting points... this "place" is terrific! Starting reading points, I loved starting with Your Gifted Child (may help push you to seeing even with in gifted you are out there), Ruf's Five Levels of Giftedness (ppt online and I know grinity posted a service site), and Genius Denied is great to read now so you are mentally prepared for how the educational system is set up (to not serve gifted kids inherently).

Just my favs.