Thank you for all your responses. It is so nice to share with people who get it and who have been there. I really appreciate all the advice and words of wisdom.
We have decided to retest our DD and to move her from her current school. The school has repeatedly shown us that they don't understand gifted kids and since they are so small there is little flexibility with teachers etc. We have set up interviews with 3 local schools over the next few weeks. We are going to take it slow so we don't "don't jump out of the frying pan and into the fire".
Lisa
