Thanks for your thoughts ColinsMum, she is stressed out and I have no interest in toilet training now. We will leave the potty out so there is something her size if she wants it. My kids have worn our potty as a hat too. We really aren't precious about it.
But I still have the problem of bath refusal and her wanting to go on the floor because she doesn't want to go in a nappy, the bath, the toilet or the potty. If we had floorboards I would be inclined to tolerate that, just clean it up and work towards reducing her anxiety by having no drama. But we have carpet through most of the house and it's also too cold to spend 15 minutes running around naked too scared to get in the bath but refusing to go potty so she will feel safe in the bath. She does seem to be calming down a bit so hopefully it will just peter out on it's own.
