You could also level with her about what her test scores are and what they mean; if you think she's prepared for that kind of reasoning.
We have and she has bought the line that she was fed by her 3rd grade teacher over and over that she is just a good guesser. She thinks that I am lying to her or being an elitist jerk who thinks that my kids are smart even if it isn't true.
Has she read anything about 2e? I wonder if presenting her with evidence that others go through this too would help?
Like I said, I only have a 5 year old, I dont pretend to know anything about parenting a "tween." (I hate that word. Anyone else? LOL)
