I'd like to echo ColinsMum's reply. It really depends on the child AND the school environment. I have an 11yo dd who has presented as pg since she started reading around her 2nd birthday. She took the Explore test last year through NUMATS and was awarded a medal due to her high score for her grade. Yet she is in 5th grade, has never been grade accelerated, and is ecstatically happy at her neighborhood public school. It is a bit of a balancing act, and has required effort and patience on our part to cultivate a good working relationship (a key factor) with an idiosyncratic school, and we combine that with extracurriculars.
She receives in-class differentiation in math (if I understand, she'll have completed the middle school math standards by the time she starts middle school next year - currently working on solving simultaneous equations). While we expect the school to challenge her and we expect her to work at the level she is capable of, we also work together with the school to shelter her from undue pressure and high expectations that can follow high test scores. So dd knows she is a good student, has the NUMATS medal on her bulletin board, but it doesn't feel like a big deal to her - it in no way defines who she is. She has many interests, and is more likely to spend a Saturday creating paper dolls, etc. than doing something academic.
I think it is very important for all kids to be in a supportive learning environment where they learn how to tackle the unknown, but beyond that, we've had success (so far....) with letting our happy kids be.
Last edited by amylou; 02/11/11 07:43 AM.