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With two days to go until DS6 IEP for next year, the problems begin....

The math teacher that we had lined up for next year quit as her husband was transferred to another state. We got over that hurdle by agreeing that DS would do math with the GT coordinator.

The GT coordinator called me last night to let me know that because of budget cuts she's being moved to a different school and that our school is going to a part time coordinator. Further, the district is asking the new GTC not pull kids out for classes but rather help the teachers differentiate within their own classrooms. How is a teacher supposed to differentiate 3 grade levels? She called me because she didn't want me to be blindsided when I walk into the meeting on Thursday.

The other thing is that as of yesterday, the district has not given the plan for radical acceleration to 4th their blessing. If they won't accelerate then we'll homeschool, I've got that part covered. I'm more concerned as to what to do if they do agree to accelerate but refuse to allow pullouts for math? He's also supposed to be pulled out for recess with 1st grade everyday but according to the GT, they are trying to do away with pullouts completely.

I'm looking at the option of half days where we would take care of math at home but I don't even know if our district allows that. The big problem with that is that math takes place at 10:00 so when would his day start?

A week ago everything was perfect and now it's a disaster! I knew it was too good to last! Ideas anyone? I've only got two days to figure this out!

Oh no, how can things fall apart so quickly?

Will they support your son doing an EPGY program at school? If you're considering homeschooling anyway, will they allow you to come to school and tutor your son in math? This could be part-time homeschooling at school.

It sounds like they've been pretty flexible so far with out of the box options. Hope your good luck continues!

Is the math schedule going to be the same for next year? No matter what? The school actually did some rearranging of the schedules for my DD9's partial day. We are riding the fence again and won't know anything until 2 weeks before school starts. They closed one elementary as of the end of this school year so we don't know what, if any, changes that may bring.

I would certainly present all your options if you need to. The school was perfectly aware, in a very nice way, that I wouldn't consider putting my DD9 back in classes that wouldn't meet her needs. They knew I would homeschool if needed (was already). When they agreed that they couldn't meet her needs the principal jumped at the chance to put her in on a partial day, once I suggested it. My DD9 is the first child that the district has allowed to do a partial day at this level.

Right now we are trying to get some classes approved from the Michigan Virtual University. Approved through the school district that is. The state laws say she should be able to take the classes and the school district should pay, the school district says no until she reaches chronological age. If your school is open maybe something like that would work?

They have been so open up until now to accomodate your son maybe they will still be willing to if given the chance? What does your state law say regarding gifted needs? I'd do as much research as possible and then go in with an open mind. Keeping fingers crossed for you son!

Argh! Sounds like a case where DON'T PANIC!!!! is the main rule.

I second the EPGY idea - weren't you setting your DS up with this for the summer anyway? Could he then just continue it into the school year, and do it more or less anywhere? It's not as good as actually having contact with someone able to teach him at his level regularly in school, but it might be more practical than partial homeschooling with maths being at 10?

Good luck, and let us know what happens!

Sorry to hear about the changes at school. I like the idea of *homeschooling at school* that someone mentioned. It sounds like the school has been so helpful to this point.

Good luck and keep us posted. My DH is still waiting on a job offer in NM, so I'll be anxious to hear about the outcome.

Oh Shari,
I'm so sorry to hear about this!
Hang on dear!
Grinity

No added suggestions from me. Just support. Keep us updated!

The director of Sped called me last night(in NM gifted falls under the special ed umbrella). She told me that my information was not correct in regard to my son. It is the district's intent to keep my son with his "academic peers". She must have made that statement 5 times, but she never directly answered the question about pull-outs. It was a weird conversation. It was like she was trying to reassure me without telling me anything. Tomorrow should be interesting!

Good luck Shari! So sorry the bubble burst. *hugs*

Shari - So sorry for all the change-ups, right when you thought you had next year all lined up. Maybe it's helpful that GT falls under special ed. Special ed to me makes it seem like a group who wouldn't take away necessary special accommodations. I hope your meeting goes well tomorrow.

Good luck tomorrow, keep us posted please.

Good luck with your meeting tomorrow!

Good luck, Shari -- I hope it goes well.

We had our IEP meeting this morning and it went really well! DS6 is going to be radically accelerated to 4th grade. He will have pullouts for music and PE with the 1st graders. He will also participate in the end of day recess with 1st grade as it is required for his age (2 recess' a day). He will have math with the GT although he is going to have to take unit assessments for each 5th grade unit prior to moving forward. This is because of a few identified gaps that came up on the year end assessment for 5th grade math. He will continue to see the counselor 2x a month for additional support during the transition. We will have a meeting one month into the new term to see if any changes need to be made.

So with a big sigh of relief, I can now go back to being happy! At least for now, subject to change at a moments notice!

Great news, I hope it works out well for him. I only wish more schools were as accomadating.

CONGRATS!!!!

Phew!

Congrats!

How did you and the school reach an agreement?

EW

That's wonderful! Congratulations.

Excellent news Shari - you can return to happy! We have our meeting with the Head tomorrow regarding our DS(just turned 7) grade-skipping (still not sure if it will be one or two years, although in my heart I know from an academic point of view it needs to be two - he recently trialled a class two years above and sat a Math test with them and got 19/20).
It is great for me to follow your DS's progress and your confidence has given me a boost.

It is so great to hear when meetings go well and schools are helpful - enjoy

Good! I'm relieved on your behalf!

Great news, Shari!

Wow! Those are incredible accommodations that never could happen at our old school. Congratulations! I hope it goes well.