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    Originally Posted by JDAx3
    Could it be that she gets the math conceptually, but hasn't had experience actually solving problems? DSs tester mentioned to us that he grasped above level concepts and could set problems up, but wasn't always able to complete the calculation. She felt it was due to not having the instruction yet. I do see that DS can do mental math far easier and quicker than he can do it with pencil and paper. Once he writes it down, he gets it all confused, especially if he's not had practice with it.

    Just a thought.

    Yes, I would agree with this. She is much better at grapsing the concept than doing the math to solve it. I just printed off the sheets for 7th grade math and there is nothing on this she cannot do, she understand what to do, but she makes careless mistakes. That is what may cost her.

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    Originally Posted by DrH
    ...not to mention there are other issues you will have to face when you push a child to skip grades - social issues like a lack of friends, not fitting in, being small.... you have a great reason now not to skip a grade and it would give you a lot of time to prep her for the math test she would then take again.

    I take exception to your use of the word "push." No one is pushing anyone. You have me confused with some overbearing parent who thinks their child is a little Einstein. The school proactively contacted US and offered her this option, which she accepted and is excited about.

    I think your assumption that by accelerating her we will impede her social skills is way way off base and the myth gifted children's parents are trying desperately to eradicate.

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    I agree, marieg!


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    Wow, DrH -- rabble rouse much? You're on a roll today ...

    marieg -- My ds has the same issue -- his calculations are very, very good for his age (or for adults, for that matter) but he makes careless mistakes when rushing. I'd work with the process with your dd.

    Also ... if she's going into 6th grade for lack of challenge, I see that 74% as a good thing -- she'll have some room to grow and might have to work a bit to catch up. That's good for kids who haven't experienced much school challenge -- better earlier than later. Having to struggle to learn *something* really is a gift to these kids, who learn really bad study habits if they aren't encouraged to struggle. Not struggle *hard* -- just enough to realize that working hard isn't a bad thing.

    OTOH, if those scores preclude her from participating in all the other advanced classes ... I'd probably wait the year and continue with subject acceleration. But that's me. smile


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    Could it be that she gets the math conceptually, but hasn't had experience actually solving problems? DSs tester mentioned to us that he grasped above level concepts and could set problems up, but wasn't always able to complete the calculation. She felt it was due to not having the instruction yet. I do see that DS can do mental math far easier and quicker than he can do it with pencil and paper. Once he writes it down, he gets it all confused, especially if he's not had practice with it.

    Just a thought.
    This also reminds me of something Kriston said about not confusing math with arithmetic. Some of this mismatch may be ansynchronicity but some may be from not getting the opportunity to work at the appropriate level. If Since DD is excited about the skip, I'd talk to her about the need to practice some of the arithmetic that's tripping her up with the local test.

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    Originally Posted by marieg
    Originally Posted by DrH
    ...not to mention there are other issues you will have to face when you push a child to skip grades - social issues like a lack of friends, not fitting in, being small.... you have a great reason now not to skip a grade and it would give you a lot of time to prep her for the math test she would then take again.

    I take exception to your use of the word "push." No one is pushing anyone. You have me confused with some overbearing parent who thinks their child is a little Einstein. The school proactively contacted US and offered her this option, which she accepted and is excited about.

    I think your assumption that by accelerating her we will impede her social skills is way way off base and the myth gifted children's parents are trying desperately to eradicate.

    Actually I didn't assume you were one of those "overbearing" parents. Although by the way you honed in on the word "push" and automatically assumed I thought you were a "pushy" parent, "The lady doth protest too much, methinks."

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