MoN - thank you. I think you identified the preconception with which I was (unknowingly) struggling. It's the material guidelines and the "recommended" contact hours for homeschooling that aren't meshing for us. My homeschool friends talk about ordering whole grade curricula, then not being able to complete it in a year. I piecemeal and he's done with the grade level in a month. I'm just filling in gaps - 20 mins here, 20 mins there. What am I supposed to do for the rest of the school year? Projects. Projects sound good. He can go as deep as he wants with those.
Hahahahahahahaha.... OHHhhhhhhhhhh, do I ever remember homeschooling.
I spent a long time carefully putting together "unit study boxes" for her once I had gotten over the "complete curriculum" trap. Don't do that.
Library, yes.
Free activities and low cost ones in your community-- check. (Parks and rec departments, community colleges that offer community/non-credit ed, etc.)
Throw away your concept of 'schooling hours.'
We have never met them. Ever. Except, well, DD
does like to read. It's just that if I permit her to read for hours and hours-- filling up a "regular" school day with that? Then her learning rate begins to look freakish to the point that we actively hide it from others. To prevent this particular problem, enter the cyberschool... which we thought would be a good way to keep things from devolving into even worse asynchrony, and to keep from going broke, too... heheh...

No more buying "fully inclusive Grade X curriculum" that only lasts a month! (No, instead-- fighting the school to get them to send you grade X+1 after just two months... Whee..)
Something to be aware of with kids like this is that their strengths are
so strong that they can readily compensate for weaknesses (often in writing and written expression) SO well that they fail to ever work on those areas meaningfully as unschoolers. (This is actually the
real reason that we cyberschool; DD isn't compliant enough for me to simply "assign" her things that are non-preferred.)
If we put out a "daily minimum" for particular learning activities and then leave her to figure out how to structure the rest of her day, that works better. It's like partial unschooling, really, but it's the best balance we found for allowing DD to mature for a longer period prior to college, to have a "real" childhood, and to keep the school from getting upset with us. DD has been "held back" a bit in a functional sense, which would sound ludicrous anywhere but here, given that she's a 14yo rising high school senior with a full slate of extracurriculars, near the top of her graduating class.
Just be aware that even as a high schooler, she only spends about 2-3 hr each school day doing what the school thinks she should be doing. We've learned to leave well enough alone there, and she's learned to keep her mouth shut about how little time it takes her, and to use her free time to do what she wants.