Thanks, Dude.
Hk- I am an awful writer (incase you haven't noticed). Luckily dh is a MUCH better at writing and speaking diplomatically.
I guess I just want to be prepared before the meeting. I don't want us to get bulldozed because we didn't understand policy, rights, etc. I'm also concerned that if this meeting does not go well; it will have significant reprecussions since the director of special Ed (and gifted services) will be there.
I hope I didn't open a can of worms by asking for accommodation during VT. Also, I am now re- rethinking that I should get the OT eval before this meeting, so all the concerns will be brought to the meeting.
And I thought summer would be relaxing.... Silly me.