THANK YOU ALL!
WONDERFUL and stimulating conversation here.... I will add my thoughts....My son attended a great K thru 7th grade small private school, for 8th HE opted to go to a new public junior high, that was a feeder school for a terrific group of new high schools in our city. He is a genuinely brilliant musician and writer, and it has been a considerable effort to provide him with learning opportunities that match his curiosity... but we keep trying...well had a great 8th grade experience, spreading his wings in activism, which is deepest held joy (with music). Then, the high school he attends was problematic from day one... I would say that, as parents, we saw this right away and stepped in to advocate (beside him, as we felt that he was mature enough to speak for himself about the problems he was having)by doing this early, and focusing on solutions, the school amazed us by bumping him up to the sophomore level to solve the problems... which actually has worked quite well.... moral of the story: don't be afraid to articulate issues early emough in a semester to get a positive result.. this school clearly saw our son's value as a student and a person .. and so they acted to help him in any way they could.. he took an online math course to accomodate the freshman math.. and will take a comm. coll. class in history.. ALL of the school's courses are "ap"... but this is highly unusual in our big state (CA)... and, I believe most states... our son wants greater challenges in reading and writing, so he is taking a Johns Hopkins onlline for that... but keeping the homework level low allows him to put emphasis on practice time for his music and performances... man, and we thought parenting a gifted child would be easy! Certainly it involves copious amounts of travel time... AND, he feels he doesn't have his own "group".. a bit left out--although he is extremely social-- his teachers are excellent this year... they said that many of his questions and discussion points are not understood by the class.. instead of making him feel left out, they choose to spend the time talking it out with him... either in or out... of class... however, we as parents make time each day for in-depth discussion, and that, I think, has made all the difference... all best, I am so grateful to have found this site...