I forgot to update you all..... 
DD was accepted to DYS last month!!! 
The resources have been fantastic and I got the support and encouragement from other DYS homeschooling mothers to look into a formal evaluation for SPD for my daughter (which she does have - BIG TIME). So, I guess she's technically, 2E then. 

DD also has made an email friend via DYS who she loves communicating with and we hope to meet in person this summer.
 Grinity, Cricket2 & palodeagua, Thanks for your encouragement and comments when I initially posted this.