So, my four hour old grabbed my shirt today, and is now pretty consistently grabbing things accurately (he's now 15 hrs old).  Wieeeeee-rd.  Maybe some strange extent ion of the reflex& it'll vanish or something.
Also, my 2.5yr old is a breastfeeding consultant now.  He took out my boob, grabbed his brother's head, pinched my nipple properly, and latched the kid.  We'll have to talk to him about not rushing a nursing mama, but hey 

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oh, and the birth was an early milestone, too.  1hr of active labour.  Not bad after my first took 4days.
-Mich.