Thank you all.. I am so glad I found this board. We met with the private school yesterday, and they said given his IQ report that they would like to consider him for either 1st or K. They are going to have him assessed 1:1 by a 1st grade teacher, then have him come back and spend a day in the K class, and then discuss the more appropriate setting for him. (we haven't even been accepted yet, so this seems really cool of them, as they seem very invested in finding the right place for him). Is anyone in California? And if so, familiar with The Pegasus School in Huntington Beach? That is the school.