My fourth grade DS9 has scores similar to your son's. If my son was two years ahead in math, I think he would be appropriately challenged, for the most part. Meaning he would actually have to do some work! So I am not shocked that your son didn't pass the last two topic assessments, given that the teacher doesn't seem to be communicating well and is making no concessions for your son's age. You son is 6 - of course he's going to need a little bit more help staying organized and developing independent study habits. You are obviously willing to do this. But the the teacher should have informed you after he failed ONE assessment, and you should have access to a book.
If I were in your shoes my number one priority would be to get hold of that book ASAP. You should get your own copy. Your son probably needs an extra ten minutes of your time each day going forward, but right now he probably needs a couple hours.
Can your hire a tutor for four sessions?
In the meeting with the principal I would focus on three things:
1. EXACTLY what curriculum / book are they using (so you can order your own)?
2. You want the homework, topics, and test dates communicated efficiently. Does the teacher post homework assigments and test dates on line? Send home a weekly schedule? If not, your son might need special accomodations in this area, like the teacher emailing them directly to you.
3. The behavior will probaby improve as soon as your son understands what the heck is going on. Assure the principal of this.
It sounds like maybe the teacher is trying to get rid of him. Is there a different 3rd grade math class? Are the 3rd grade math classes grouped my ability?
The school agreed to the acceleration and the scheduling, so I can't believe they wouldn't help you out on these minor things! It sounds like the teacher is a piece of work.
Last edited by JaneSmith; 09/27/10 04:36 AM.
