Even if your child ends up being diagnosed with ADHD there are ways to cope with. That said, I worry about the diagnoses for my DD4. She is very hyper, silly, and impuslve, but she CAN focus and contain, esp. if something interesting is happening. She learns "academic" things quickly and easily BUT doesn't seem to be listening many time, interupts, and is slow to respond to social lessons. I worry, yet I am telling you not to worry. Yes, I am a hypocrit.