Thanks BooBoo. I mean--trying to explain what it is like living with her doesn't come close to the experience unless you have a kid like this! OK--so I am so teaching her how to read, starting tomorrow, lol! (kidding...sort of!) I guess I just feel like I would like to get some guesstimate on IQ from a professional, so I don't feel like I am crazy and there is an explanation for why she is the way she is! (and how I can ummmm...channel her strengths!) I am glad that your son is able to control his behavior better now, for both of your sakes.