Wow thank-you for the responses... I feel a sense of relief.... How much playing on Starfall do people let there kids do? The counting thing was easier when it was a skip of a number..then I could just count with the right number in the place. This seventeen thing is a bit strange because its like a correction to do anything about it....

Another question is does anyone have a developmental breakdown of pretend play. Sometimes I have spoken about what my DD is doing in the playgroup and gotten those funny blank face reactions from people so I thought maybe I should explore that area and be aware.