Things are so different than when we were kids that even the gt moms and dads are struggling to figure it all out! there are more options, but a lot of negativity about labeling, etc.
One of mine dear kids is probably on par with me, one is likely more like her dad (aka smarter, but somehow less in tune with others...)
Lots of good ideas on this forum though!! Welcome. smile

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