Bianca, don't worry about the food thing. It's partly wiring that you can't change. DS has been one of the pickier eaters you will meet. Suddenly, in the last 6 months (since turning 12) he has changed--he wants to try new foods. He had tofu for dinner tonight, cream of spinach soup a few days ago; he eats salad, and brocolli and all kinds of things he couldn't stand a year ago. I think his brain just matured. Calmness and patience and gentle encouragment has paid off. Really, your DD won't be like this her whole life.