This is really tough for all of us. Yesterday I had a meeting with my son's teacher and told him he had no friends. The teacher wasn't surprised because he said little'un "talked down" to the rest of the class. He doesn;t know he's doing this, and would be mortified if he thought he was. he is in a peer group of his own chronological age, but, as 3 EPs have said, he needs to be with older kids (tye school won't allow this)
Anyhow - that said - I did pick up a book, and for once it actually did help:
The Unwritten Rules Of friendship
Natalie Madorsky Elman & Eileen Kennedy-Moore
http://www.amazon.com/Unwritten-Rul...UTF8&qid=1274521300&sr=8-1-fkmr0The problem with all these books is that they try to compartmentalise kids into different 'types', (making 90% of the content not applicable to your individual situation) but we are more complex than that. So, dib in and I'm sure you will find some really useful stuff