No suggestions, just empathy. It has got to be so frustrating when your motor skills are not as developed as your brain. The frustration is still there for DS7, but he doesn't have the horrible tantrums and refusals to try something else like he did as a toddler. DS would refuse help, would refuse suggestions to make it easier...I could see what he had in his mind to accomplish and his body just would not do it! Blah, I don't think you can do anything except wait for his body to grow. Nan