well I finally went in to talk to the school director and she said that she and my daughter's teacher have spoken and they are both "concerned" about how much father ahead she is. I will meet one on one with her preschool teacher tomorrow. I got the sense that they would consider trying her with the kindergarten class next year, but were worried about her social life. I am actually hoping there is a way to make things work for her at this school next year and my sense is they are willing to do something. I asked, and she is the only one of her kind in the program this year and it is a fairly large preschool with many classes. I still don't have an answer, but was actually comforted by the experience since they clearly saw that she was way ahead and were worried about things just not being right for her in their program and were caring and talked with me for a long time. I am still not sure what we are going to do,but if felt nice that they were so supportive and didn't throw "they all level out in third grade" etc. Now I hope we can come up with something that will work for her.
